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I adopted a second grey some 5-6 weeks  ago which had come from an abused background including having been hung by wire and battered until his skull fractured ...since adopting him he has snarled and lunged at me once after he pinched a chicken carcus and i tried to remove it.  Working part time my mother walks my dogs whilst i am out the house, only today he snarled at her and later growled at my son who was cuddling him at the time ...i am looking for any advice that would help me stop this behaviour, thank you in advance.

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It may be better for you to PM Lindasdogs and she could give you contacts and advice. All the very best and hope things work out OK for you all. smile Nora

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Thanks for that, i have taken your advice, keeping my fingers crossed.

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That poor dog - no wonder he's crazy mixed up!  furious

Best of luck - I really hope you get things sorted out and that there's a happy ending for everyone. 

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Hi Anji

I have similar issues with Indiana but with time (and a change in the way I approach things!) it has definitely lessened. The best thing I did was attend Viv Silverstein's doggy day class but it would prob be even more worthwhile to have her out to your house for a one-to-one session. In terms of the stealing food and growling thing - Viv told me to forget it. On no circumstances must I try to take an item away from him - I have to think of my own safety(I had mentioned the time he stole a lightbulb and was only thinking of his safety but Viv says even then you need to think about what would happen if I just tried to take it off him and he got aggressive). Instead do a trade-off. Have something of higher value around (squeaky toy, bigger bit of food etc), say 'leave-it' when you have got his interest away from the original item and give him the treat. I found this hard at first because it felt like I was rewarding him for bad behaviour, however, he is not nearly so bad now and understands the 'leave-it' command very well. Lots of work on that in general helps.
In the past he has also growled when not wanting to go out walks with anyone except me and at my husband for shifting his position on the sofa. All I can say for this is, seek professional advice and know that with time it will definitely get better. Your poor dog has had a very bad time in the past and it will prob take a long time for him to trust humans. Best of luck and fingers crossed for a rosier future x

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I really hope you get things sorted out, sounds like he's been through a very bad time. I hope things work out and you can be a happy family together.

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We had probs with Harry for a few months in that if anyone tried to cuddle him (apart from Fiona and I) he would give the growls - this happened with youngsters and adults. He had a hard time we think before we got him too - not on the same scale as your pooch though. We used the better treat idea to get anything off him too - works fine. All okay now but wouldn't let huggy kids around him on his own. 

Would recommend Viv - we saw her on a fear aggression issue. Like most doggy probs like this - it isn't something that can be solved overnight. Takes  LOTS of patience, continued training, a responsible attitude and an acceptance that this is what my dogs does - others do it too. 

Good luck !



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Thanks for the replies everyone, i understand this is going to take time to resolove and i intend to give it my best shot, hopefully with the help of a trainer to turn him into a happy hound.

As i am writing this he has sneaked over to snuggle up to my son for cuddles and fallen asleep, 95% of the time he is a contented pooch, its the unpredictable 5% of the time i worry about.

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Hi Anji
well done to you for taking on this poor dog, who will obviously take time, and there are lots of folk on here with loads of support and experience.  Just to say from your post, it sounds like (due to his experiences of violence) he needs to seek cuddles on his own terms, and may be showing fear when being touched as in the past this meant pain.  Just sounds as if you need to be very careful, especially with your little boy, with no sudden movement or touching until he feels safe and can trust his new people.  5-6 weeks is very early days in his getting settled.

It would seem from the fact he is seeking cuddles means he wants comfort on his own terms, but it sounds like you still need to be very careful.

Wishing you lots of luck with your hound.

-- Edited by Valerie at 22:59, 2007-08-07

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I today had the terror to the vet and he thinks it may be due tot he fact his eyes are not level, his skull knitted together making his eyes displaced and therefore the angle of his sight has been affected, in addition he has a soft hollow on top of his head, again due to how his skull has knitted and he may be feeling pain when you touch the hollow, which in turn makes him show aggression.

He is becoming more like my shadow with each passing day, patience and lots of tlc is working wonders, but in the main on his terms.

Thanks to everyone who responded, fingers crossed he can be a happy hound :0)



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Poor poor soul.  I hope that whoever did that to him gets what's coming!furiousfurious 
Wills has a wee soft hollow on his skull but fortunately doesn't seem to have any adverse reaction to being touched there.  I hope that this is the answer and that, now you know about it, you can work round it without further trauma.  smile

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If only they could talk,once more a very sad story for these wonderful dogs. Cas my grey whom was found as a stray still shows aggression when you try to take something from her we have had her six years, and she makes a lot of growling noise when playing,though she will not bite it is still pretty scarey with the noise she makes. I seem to be the only one that she will surrender anything too and even then it is with strict commands and a lot of  persuading. I do find that if I swap her for something she is allowed and more tasty she will give up the "prize" easier. Cas does growl occasionaly when cuddled but we ignore it and tell her "what a good girl" and that is as far as it goes. All the very best with your boy and I am sure in time it will be cured or tolerated by him and you. smile Nora 



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Anji - this is more help to you in terms of putting together a picture of what is frightening for your hound, so you can take account in the way you approach.  Your poor dog has really suffered at the hands of some sick person(s), but how good that you have come into his life to give him this chance.
As you say - it will take lots of TLC, but the rewards will come to you in time - lots of luck.

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He is an adorable hound really Valerie, love him to bits ...even when he sneaks up and nips my bum because i have dared to turn my back on him :0))


By hook or by crook i WILL get him through his aggressive stages!

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That sounds so reassuring.  Biscuit nips my bum, and it's a really playful and trusting thing to do, so I think the bond is already coming along well with you. It sounds like he is really trying to build a realtionship and wants trust. but he won't be able to stop the bad memories he associates with certain movements, but it soulds like it will come in time.  He sounds like he is a bit of a character, and I know folks on here will want to here about your breakthroughs with him, and it will help to sustain you as well.smile

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Valerie wrote:

He sounds like he is a bit of a character, and I know folks on here will want to here about your breakthroughs with him, and it will help to sustain you as well.smile



Absolutely want to hear how he gets on. It takes time and a lot of patience to get to know animals and their quirks, especially when they have had negative experiences in the past.
I'm sure your perseverance will be rewarded and will keep fingers crossed for you.
Marie

 



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Such a painful story - it will be fantastic to hear of his progress with you, which I'm sure he will make with time. It must fell pretty tough sometimes when there seem to be setbacks, but I think the rewards will be tremendous as he builds trust in you and reaches each milestone. Its good to hear the achievements as it helps to counteract the despair I think many of us feel soemtimes at the sheer scale of the abuse. Look forward to reading of his continued progress in your care.

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niccimac wrote:

I think many of us feel soemtimes at the sheer scale of the abuse.



How true - there are just so many poor hounds out there who just "disappear" it can be depressing.  Tigger was up beside me last night and I was thinking about how lucky she was - things could so easily have ended differently for her.  It is so nice to hear stories about rescues and successes. 



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I try NOT to imagine what he went through previously, just does not bear thinking about. I try to look on the positive that it's a new chapter in his life where he will never have to suffer abuse of any kind again .

When i first got Lucky he would not attempt to climb my stairs and would have sat crying at the bottom of the stairs so when it was bed time i would carry him up stairs and back down in the morning, now he is one big dog who was becoming heaving by the day ...anyway he fathomed out how to get up himself but i had to carry him back down and this soom became a game. He would run up, i would carry him down, he would run up and again i would carry him down and so it went on, i didn't have the heart to leave him crying at the top of the stairs ...until one day he did it himself and i never had to look back.

I am going to try and upload pictures later today of him and my other black 'Toots'! Whilst Toots is all grace Lucky is as clumsy as they come, he runs like a galoot with legs splaying everywhere, he leaps like a spring lamb whilst out on the leash, it's a battle of wills to get him to walk normally and he stands leaning against me, sure he will topple over if i step away.

This may be one determined pooch but he has an even more determined owner!

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Given what the vet said about the angle of Lucky's eyes being affected by his fractured skull knitting, his co-ordination must be affected - I couldn't imagine how it would not be under these circs.  But given time to adjust to his new "view" of the world, I'm sure in time (just like the stairs, and coming down stairs is hard for humans too with any sight issue) he will adapt.  Also, I wonder if he is a young dog?  It takes a few years before they stop growing into their legs, and get a bit more grace.

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It's nice to hear he leans against you, he must trust you not to walk awaywink Getting used to new things is hard enough, but when someone's messed with your head (mental and physical) it must take ages. Keep us posted on how things go.

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He is just past 3 years old in April Valerie according to the racing greyhound database, but you would never know it as his muzzle is almost totally grey. No-one knows, nor will they be able to ascertain if he has any brain damage, maybe his co-ordination has been affacted but it is all part of his personality.

I was trying to make my bed tonight and he hopped up and sprawled across my bed. I tried to slide him off but he growled at me, the next minute he thought it was all a game and started to 'dig' at my quilt and was nipping at my bum ...who really knows what goes on in his mind!

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As promised pictures of my pups, the first two are lucky and the last one is of my other grey 'Toots' and my Collie 'Lassie' ...god know how i managed to capture them in the perfect pose!





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aww  They're lovely.  Love the wee face looking at the camera from his bed.  aww  What a sweetheart.  That's a smashing photo of the two in the field.  As you say, it's the perfect pose isn't it?    wink

They're a handsome bunch - thanks for sharing the photos with us.  smile

-- Edited by Isla at 22:32, 2007-08-11

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Lovely photos, tell him grey faces are the 'in' thing for greys wink

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lovely photo's and so nice to see him looking so happy bless...

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