If it should be that I grow frail and weak, And pain should keep me from my sleep,Then you must do what must be done, For this last battle can't be won.
You wil be sad, I understand. Don't let your grief then stay your hand, For this day, more than all the rest, Your love and friendship stands the test. We've had so many happy years, What is to come can hold no fears. Would you want me to suffer?
So When the time comes, please let me go, Take me where my needs they'll tend, Only stay with me to the end, And hold me firm and speak to me, Until my eyes no longer see.I know in time that you will see It is a kindness that you do to me, Althought my tail its last has waved, From pain and suffering I have been saved. Do not grieve it should be you Who must decide this thing to do _ We've been so close, we two these years, Don't let your heart hold any tears.
Dedicated to everyone who has been in this position.
Dawn I've given a copy of this to a pal who recently had to let her dog go, she was very pleased with it and is thinking of getting it framed.Also another workmate having a dilemma so shes got a copy to to help her choose . Thanks for sharing DENISE (bovrils mum)
My Mum put this in my hand many years ago, when I had took the heartbreaking decision to have one of my dogs put to sleep, and despite being heartbroken at the time, I did take comfort from the poem. I still refer back to it when I think about the wonderful times I had with my dogs in the past and wish they were still here, but we always have to put our pets first no matter how painful it is for us, thats why we love them so much. I hope you friends will take comfort from this too. The author was unknown, but obviously a great dog lover.
I am just wiping my eyes reading this. We are in this position at the moment with our dog who is staying with my mum and dad (he was retired to them three years ago). They do not want to even discuss what may have to happen so I shall give them a copy and hopefully it will comfort them when the time comes to talk about the issue.
Thank you for posting that beautiful poem.I have been in that position when my 13 year old dog was ill last year. I had to make that terrible decision. But now I know shes a happy dog waiting for me up there.
what a beautiful verse and we can identify with the sentiment. Holly was assisted two years ago when she had an untreatable injury to her spine and 15 year old Belle last month .We were both with Holly and my only regret was that I could not be there for Belle and my Husband was on his own. they were both trusting faithful friends ti the last
they are the most beautiful words i have ever read - and what meaning! brought a lump to my throat and tears to my eyes. hopefull, it will be many years before i need that comfort.